
Top 10 Reasons to Make a Time Capsule for an Alzheimer Patient
Top 10 Reasons to Make a Time Capsule for Alzheimer Patient
Memories are some of the most special moments we want to treasure forever. That is more difficult for us all, as we get older.
“She just does not seem to be all there anymore. She is forgetting more. She is having a hard time recognizing me as her daughter. She is forgetting my name.” – my Aunt complained to my mother over the phone. My aunt was living in Texas with my grandmother, and my mom (her sister) lives in Indiana. It was heart retching knowing there was very little my mother could do, to help my Aunt and Grandmother, in Indiana.
What To Do To Help the Older Generation
Despite our distance, my grandmother and I were close. She prayed for my future husband for years, wherever he was in life, to be ready for me mentally, emotionally, and physically. Her prayers worked as I found “the one.” How could I ever give back to my grandmother who was an Alzheimer patient. I do not wish this problem, or any other memory disorder, on anyone. It is hard to deal with, as family members let alone being the actual person trying to live through this struggle.
How a Memory Box or Time Capsule Helps
Even though my family lived far away from my grandmother, that does not mean we could not help. We helped my Aunt recall memories, wrote down stories we remembered, recorded our voices, and of course as grandchildren created homemade cards for grandma.
A memory box or time capsule can do a similar function to help. What would you put in a memory box to stir up a loved one’s memory, emotions, and thoughts?
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A Memory Box or Time Capsule helps us all Recall the Past
Include things like:
• Newspaper clipping of special events, or marriage announcement
• Postcards of places visited
• Favorite recipes (maybe even take the time then to make the recipe together)
• A letter from each of you as family members thanking your loved one for all he or she has done for you.
• Family photos
• Special necklace or watch your loved one constantly used to wear
• Video of your loved one growing up. Go through the video slowly pausing to say each person’s name (especially if they are family members) to help your loved one recall names with faces.
• Hobbies your loved one usually does (for example: a sample of his or her quilt or a golf ball)
• Include items which an Alzheimer’s patient loves or boosts their self-esteem. Things that give your loved one their identity back.
• A memory box or time capsule can help an Alzheimer’s patient on all sensory levels. Include things that relate to all their senses. For example, maybe include their favorite perfume or cologne in a small bottle.
This is a fun activity to do for the family, as much as it is for your loved one to open the memory box or time capsule. You all get to share sentimental moments with each other, bonding closer and inspiring conversation about the nostalgic items. Whatever you include in your memory box or time capsule, make sure it reflects the senior’s loves, interests, and significant or milestone moments in the history of their lives, and has strong meaning to him or her. You may want to include an inventory checklist of each item you include with a tag on each item with the story associated with each nostalgic memento. This will help your loved one be able to read and review things on their own time too.
If everything goes well, memory boxes are a great means to help an alzheimer’s patient, because when a senior sees one memory trigger, it may help them recall another memory to talk about. You may even find out something new about them, that you had no idea about. To read more about this topic, check out http://www.wired.co.uk/news/archive/2012-10/09/music-memory-box
What would you put in a memory box or time capsule for your older loved one, to help them remember better? Comment below.
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